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Hi, we are Dale and Heather Aceron, and this is The Quick and Dirty Marriage. Through our own struggles and victories over the past 20 years of being married together, we are here to show you some simple steps in getting your relationship pointed back in the right direction.

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Feb 27, 2020

Love is not...Selfish

Do you feel as though you keep giving into your marriage and there's nothing in return? Like you're being taken for granted?

Or maybe it's is like a tug of war where you do something for yourself then your spouse has to do something for them self to make it equal? Like you buy a nice shirt so then your spouse goes out and gets her nails done? It's tiring living this way. So what do you do?

Simple. A conversation. And here are some guidelines:

  • bring up the conversation when things are good
    • "Can we please chat about something?"
  • don't accuse
    • Avoid calling them names
  • use "I" statements
    • "I've been feeling unappreciated lately"